Thursday, June 20, 2024

One Art, Elizabeth Bishop

The art of losing isn’t hard to master;
so many things seem filled with the intent
to be lost that their loss is no disaster.

Lose something every day. Accept the fluster
of lost door keys, the hour badly spent.
The art of losing isn’t hard to master.

Then practice losing farther, losing faster:
places, and names, and where it was you meant
to travel. None of these will bring disaster.

I lost my mother’s watch. And look! my last, or
next-to-last, of three loved houses went.
The art of losing isn’t hard to master.

I lost two cities, lovely ones. And, vaster,
some realms I owned, two rivers, a continent.
I miss them, but it wasn’t a disaster.

—Even losing you (the joking voice, a gesture
I love) I shan’t have lied. It’s evident
the art of losing’s not too hard to master
though it may look like (Write it!) like disaster.

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This is another one that I was learning while pacing the sidewalk in front of AIT. I left it for awhile but when Nana passed I came back to it. It was somehow a comfort. But also the opposite. It's true, and lyrical, and catchy. And then too true, and sad, and it's gone.

1 comment:

Bampa said...

I can't read this without thinking of Nana. I always was saddened by her lost memories and assumed she was too. But maybe that wasn't true at all! She still had lots of cherished memories that never left her and she had lots of happiness living in the present. And now I have to learn to deal with my own lost memories and maybe I'll remember lessons learned from Nana. (I hope.) Bampa